Tracy

I'm an affectionate, tactile, honest, open hearted, micky taking, attention seeker, who works shifts in a london casino. The person i'm looking for should be able to laugh at themselves as easily as at others, who is confident in themselves and happy with their lives, who's family life is as important to them as their social life is, but who maybe missing that extra bit of quirkyness that a sarcastic 5ft 1in bad spelling blonde can add. I like all the obvious stuff: long dog walks, live bands, comedy clubs, making a mess in the kitchen (disguised as cooking), glass of wine by an open fire, last min nights in brighton, sunday morning lay in's, out of the way country pubs, good food & and better company. So if you think your man/mad enough to risk it i'd love to hear from you. you can find me at this free dating site

Lesley

Hi, I am Lesley , I live in the city centre of Glasgow. I am new to this so not really sure what to say so here goes. I am a fun loving person, caring, affectionate, romantic, spontaneous, serious, I want someone to make me laugh, I treat people the way i like to be treated myself, honesty is very important to me, as long as that happens I am very happy. I dont have a particular type as long as i am attracted to the person whether its physical or mental i always have a good time (just being honest), i am looking for someone who is open minded and looking for a good time, (could that be u?). I like positive people. Life is too short, so I live each day as it comes. I love going to the cinema, whether its a chick flick, thrillers horrors i like them all, also pubs and clubs, but i also like to snuggle up to someone watching a good movie, i like to watch dvds surrounded by candlelight, i am quite a romantic person. I like spending time with my family and friends and I always have a good time no matter what. I am also a total car freak, getting a new company car soon as i have just got a new job which i am really excited about. I enjoy going on holiday to very hot climates, love the dominican republic, mexico, the states, but a dream of mine has always been to go to new york at christmas and skate at rockafella centre. If you would like to have fun and see how things develop drop me an email, hope to hear from your soon xxxx you can find me at this free dating site

Kitiniki

dobidobidoooo...whre are u guys????i am herewaiting for ur chats...i am very very beautiful!!!!i assure u that because i believe that eveybody is beautifullll...i am a GOD fearing person, and believe me that...i respect my parents and the elders...i have a self esteem and confidence is superb!!!!! you can find me at this free dating site

Dating And Self Confidence

Dating can be stressful and nerve wracking. You might feel like you are under a microscope and all your failures and faults are exposed in the open. But you can make things easier on yourself by boosting your confidence. You'll be much more attractive to any date when you exude self confidence plus you'll be able to enjoy yourself more and get much more out of the dating experience. Since the whole point of dating is getting to know someone better, most people are nervous about making a good impression. Self doubts can creep in - are you smart enough? Attractive enough? Successful enough? That coupled with the threat of rejection is enough to make anyone's confidence go south. So how can you increase your confidence for your next date? First off, don't blow the date all out of proportion. It is just a date - one afternoon or evening. The rest of your life does not depend on it, although of course, you could be meeting your future spouse! Whether you are just looking for a fun night out or desperately trying to find Mr or Mrs right, it is best to just focus on the date itself. Take it for what it is and don't put a lot of pressure on the event. Enjoy the person you are on the date with and the meal, movie or whatever - don't have any great expectations other than a fun date. Go into the date thinking of yourself as a person that has a lot of confidence. We've all seen them, the person that sweeps into the room and turns heads even when they might not be the most attractive or best dressed. If you picture yourself as confident then you will act this way - even when you don't really feel it. You've heard it before but the best way to have confidence on a date is to be yourself. Don't try to impress your date by acting like someone you are not because you will not have the confidence to pull it off. If you hit it off with your date, you'll be glad you weren't pretending to be someone else as it will only be exposed later and could really much things up for you. Plus it just takes too much effort to pretend to be someone else and you won't be able to enjoy yourself as much. And anyway, why wouldn't your date like you for who you are? If you feel insecure about yourself, focus on the other person. Become interested in their hobbies, likes dislikes and really think about what they have to say. When you put them in the spotlight it takes the spotlight off of you, plus you get to learn a lot about them. Ask questions and really hear the answers then ask more questions about the answers. Of course, you want to do this in a conversational way and not make your date feel like you are grilling them! While you don't want to talk just about yourself the whole time you also don't want to make it seem like you are avoiding answering their questions. When you do talk about yourself highlight your positive points. Another way to take some of the pressure out of a date is to do something different instead of sitting at dinner and feeling insecure about coming up with 3 hours of conversation with someone you don't know. Find a common interest, perhaps hiking or bird watching and make that date to do that. This way you can talk about your experiences related to t his interest and it will take a lot of the pressure off as well as boost your self confidence as you will be talking about something you know a lot about! The main thing when dating is to remember that you are a valuable and special person. Don't feel inferior to anyone and be confident - this will help win you many friends and, maybe even that special someone!

Dating Advice For Women

It can be difficult to be a woman in the dating arena. A lot of things can go wrong for you more than it can for your male counterpart. Plus, men can be really dense about a few things. Well, no worries. Here are a few tips on what to do and not to do during a date. And if you find that you need more dating advice you can download a free eBook on the subject of dating advice for singles at http://www.trystmasters.com 1. Timing is important - Timing as in 'on time'. No matter what they say, there is no such thing as 'fashionably late'. For the first date, this can give the guy jitters and make him think that you've stood him up. For the later dates, having him wait for you in the living room for half an hour with either your roommate, your sister or, worse, your father is not something you want him to do - whether it be for the embarrassing stories or Dad's 'eyes of doom'. 2. Be nice - Have a positive attitude, find things that you like and tell him. Compliment him about his clothes, how he looks and how well the date is going. It puts him at ease and also makes him feel important. It also shows him that you're taking notice of him and you appreciate him. But, don't lie. Like I said, look at the bright side of things - the service of the restaurant may have been slow but the ambience was terrific. Try making it into a habit, you aren't lying - you're just being diplomatic! 3. Do not complain - This doesn't mean that you shouldn't tell him that something is wrong or something makes you uncomfortable. The way you phrase it and the tone you use is important here. 'Venting' will not going to go over well with him because he'll probably misinterpret it. Grin and bear it then tell him after the date in calm, reasoned tones your problem. Trust me, he'll understand and he'll try to make it up to you. 4. Enjoy the date - A date is a chance to get to know each other and to enjoy yourselves. Have fun during the date. Try not to be hyper-critical and just take things in stride. If you're not having fun, your date will notice and, trust me, he will get nervous which will probably start ruining the experience for both of you. Also, just let your guard down for a little while. Let him see the real you. He may or may not like it, but in the end he will appreciate the honesty of the act. Besides, if he doesn't like you for you, why should you keep on dating? 5. Afterwards, show interest - If you really like the guy, waiting for the call after a successful date is nerve-wracking. Try giving him a day or two. He usually has to get his act together and work up the courage to call. If he doesn't call, he's probably still tongue-tied from being in your presence. Call him up to say hello. Talk about the date and how you had fun and give hints. He will pick up on it and he'll probably be asking you for another date! Well, there are five tips for dating success. Hopefully, this dating advice could help lead you through today's tough tangle of relationships. Happy hunting! About the author: For advice on dating for singles using online dating services you can download a free copy of "Online Dating Secrets" by Jack Rivers here: http://www.trystmasters.com

Dating Advice for Men

Once you have found a women that you like, remembering these simple tips will help you impress her and you will both have a great time on your first date. Hopefully with many more to follow. If you decide to ask this special women out for an evening with you, ask her when you both are alone. Never ask a girl out on a date in front of others, like her friends. This will either embarrass her, and may say yes or embarrass you, if she says no. If you want advice on how to get the most out of online dating services get this free eBook that covers the benefits and the downsides of meeting girls via the internet. You can download a free copy of "Online Dating Secrets" here: http://www.purextc.gethotchicks.org Here is a list of what to do on your date to inpress your lady: Look good, be neat. Put extra effort to the way you look. Take the time be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well. It must correspond to the place with which your date is set. Make a good impression, so you can charm her and she can be proud of you. Do not be late. Prepare for the big day ahead. Make the necessary reservations and planning for your date. If you have planned for it, she will be impressed that you did put some effort on your night together. Be sure that during the "big day" you have no appointments so you won't be cramming and be on time. Be polite. Be sure to make her feel good by complementing the way she looks. And when seated at the table, turn your cell phone off. This will signal to her that you are very much interested in your moment together. Say her name. Make it a point to say her name ever so often in your conversations, to make her feel at ease and special. Smile. Aside from putting up a positive attitude, your smile is an indication that you are happy to be with her. Have a Sense of Humor. Making a woman laugh means you have won half your battle. This means that she is having a nice time and creates a positive atmosphere. This will be an occasion she would remember, because she had fun! Be attentive. Listen to what she has to say or is saying, do not interrupt. Let her finish, before you state your opinion and make eye contact. Relax. Do not worry that your date is not having a good time. Go ahead and ask her. Just manage yourself well and enjoy the evening. Keep the conversations open and ask questions. Be sincere. Enjoy. Dating should be exciting and relaxing. A woman could sense if you are enjoying or not. Don't stress yourself trying so hard to make it "The Perfect Date" because it won't be. But you both can enjoy it. After all, you did invite her out because you liked her in the first place. Be spontaneous and have fun.